Making the choice to provide a peacful passing for your pet is likely the hardest one you will make during their lifetime, and assisting with this is the most important job we have. We strive to make sure that the process is as peaceful and loving as possible, and that you can stay for with your pet the entire time if you wish too.
Losing a pet is one if the most difficult things a person can experience. Whether the loss of a pet is sudden, or something you've anticipated for weeks or months, it's a highly emotional time.
Losing a pet is one if the most difficult things a person can experience. Whether the loss of a pet is sudden, or something you've anticipated for weeks or months, it's a highly emotional time.
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How do I know when its time?
When your pets health, mobility, or comfort have been declining slowly, it may be helpful to view photos or videos of your pet from before the illness. Remember how your pet looked, behaved and interacted with you. Make a list of three to five things your pet likes to do, such as going for walks, playing with other pets, or enjoying their meals. When your pet is consistently unable to enjoy these things it may be time to take a look at their quality of life. If you are still unsure or have any questions we are here to offer guidance and you can ask your veterinary to go over everything with you. We can go over available options and will never push you to make that choice. |
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What to expect
Your veterinarian will explain what to expect if you have not experienced the loss of a pet before and will be able to answer any questions you have. You will be asked to read and fill out a consent form, and your technician may go over your aftercare options at this time. You will have the option to be present for the appointment or not- rest assured no matter what our staff will make sure your pet is comfortable and taken care of throughout the whole process. Choosing how to honor your pets memory is a very personal decision. Some people prefer to have their pets ashes returned to them and some prefer they be spread communally with the other beloved pets, and both of these options can be honored or you may choose to bring your pet home for burial. We do offer clay paw prints free of charge whether you are choosing private (ashes returned) or communal cremation. We can also offer ink paw or nose prints upon request. |
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Why euthanasia over letting them pass at home?
Euthanasia translates from greek to "good death" because it is a compassionate, veterinarian-guided decision to end a pet’s suffering when their quality of life has declined. Often times there is the doubt of making that decision because we never know how many good days they have left and the fear of cutting them short can interfere with the desire to keep them comfortable. Choosing to say goodbye to your pet on a good day is the most peaceful outcome for not only your pet but you as well. As owners we never want to see our pets suffer or in pain, and making the choice to let them go is kindness we have the ability to provide. Know that it’s normal to feel guilty, second-guess your decision, and grieve the loss of your pet. Also know you’re not alone. Seek support from your family, friends, or supportive professionals. |
Grief, Guilt, and Healing from the loss of a pet
Grieving is a process and not one you should ignore. Our pets are family, companions, confidants in hard times, and part of our world through all the changes of life. It is common to feel their loss just as you would any other.
You may go through certain stages of grief for your furry friend.
Anticipatory- Mouring the loss can start even before it happens, especially when a pet has been diagnosed with a terminal illness or is reaching an old age where you know its coming up quickly.
Guilt- This can hit hard when it comes to pet euthanasia as we are the ones making the decision for them, even if its a necessary decision for them.
Second Guessing- Wondering if you made the right choice, even if you know in your heart it is what was best for them you can second guess the timing you chose or if you did enough. Focus on the fact that you provided them with an important kindness that kept them from suffereing and you did everything in your power for them.
Relief- Knowing your pet is no longer suffering. This relief can sometimes bring us back to the feeling of guilt. It can be especially hard when pets have been on strict medication schedules or needing extra help or appointments. The relief of knowing you dont have to administer medications, adhere to strict schedules, or be in and out of appointments is completely normal to feel and doesnt mean you love or miss your pet less.
Sadness- Of course there is bound to be sadness when losing your best friend. Our pets have been through it all with us including relationships, moves, kids and all of lifes little accomplishments. Sometimes losing that constant can make you feel like a piece of day to day life is missing. It is okay to embrace the sadness, dont live in it, but embrace it so you can move through it. Eventually you will be able to look back onto your pets life with fondness and joy over the memories you shared.
No matter what, know that the grief will not last forever and you can make it though it.
Grieving is a process and not one you should ignore. Our pets are family, companions, confidants in hard times, and part of our world through all the changes of life. It is common to feel their loss just as you would any other.
You may go through certain stages of grief for your furry friend.
Anticipatory- Mouring the loss can start even before it happens, especially when a pet has been diagnosed with a terminal illness or is reaching an old age where you know its coming up quickly.
Guilt- This can hit hard when it comes to pet euthanasia as we are the ones making the decision for them, even if its a necessary decision for them.
Second Guessing- Wondering if you made the right choice, even if you know in your heart it is what was best for them you can second guess the timing you chose or if you did enough. Focus on the fact that you provided them with an important kindness that kept them from suffereing and you did everything in your power for them.
Relief- Knowing your pet is no longer suffering. This relief can sometimes bring us back to the feeling of guilt. It can be especially hard when pets have been on strict medication schedules or needing extra help or appointments. The relief of knowing you dont have to administer medications, adhere to strict schedules, or be in and out of appointments is completely normal to feel and doesnt mean you love or miss your pet less.
Sadness- Of course there is bound to be sadness when losing your best friend. Our pets have been through it all with us including relationships, moves, kids and all of lifes little accomplishments. Sometimes losing that constant can make you feel like a piece of day to day life is missing. It is okay to embrace the sadness, dont live in it, but embrace it so you can move through it. Eventually you will be able to look back onto your pets life with fondness and joy over the memories you shared.
No matter what, know that the grief will not last forever and you can make it though it.
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Who do you use for your cremations services?
All clay and ink paw prints are made in clinic by the technicians and assistants that helped your pet, and cremation services are provided by Lasting paws (https://www.lastingpawspetmemorial.com/) |